DEAR MISS MANNERS: When hosting a sit-down meal, which is more correct: to clear away plates as each diner finishes a course, or to wait until all have finished eating before clearing the table?
The first option seems to send a pointed “hurry up” message to the last person to finish; the second can leave speedier eaters staring for ages at their own dirty plates. Counsel, please!
GENTLE READER: The best counsel Miss Manners has for you is to invite guests who engage in conversation, so that they are not left staring at their empty plates when they have finished eating. Courses are properly cleared when everyone has finished.
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