Dear Annie: I’ve been in a relationship with “Wanda” for three years, living with her for eight months. She’s cheated on me many times.
When I found out, we’d already been dating for two years, so I figured I’d stay. However, I suspect it’s still happening.
On top of this, she hits me, spits on my face and calls me names. I guess it’s pretty clear that I need to walk away, but for some reason, I don’t. I think it’s because I’m 38 and have never had a serious relationship work out in the long term.
Call me crazy, but I just can’t seem to leave. What advice do you have for me? — Beleaguered Boyfriend
Dear Beleaguered: You deserve better. You owe it to yourself to get out of that house and out of that relationship.
Please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) — which deals with all forms of domestic abuse — for emotional support and assistance making an exit plan.
Give yourself the chance to live the life you’re meant to live.
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